Oh yeah i so love David Cook now, I can't believe that he sang a very good rendition of Mariah's "Always be my baby". He was Amazing, brilliant ang soooo cute :) oh what the heck I'm starting to feel the blood rushing to my veins everytime I'll watch his video. oh damn David Cook come home to me now. right now. :)
But still sad that Ramielle was voted off even before Kristy Lee. that's so unfair (haha bitter me) no but she's good Ramielle yeah she is. :) ok enough back to my David Cook again, here's what the judges notes during his "Always be my baby" song:
PS. YOU"LL ALWAYS BE MY BABY. GOODBYE PIOLO. I DONT LOVE YOU NO MORE :)
(Debunking the Myths That Are Driving You Crazy)
By: Bo Sanchez
This article isn't for teenagers only.
Falling in love happens to the young and the not-so-young. (Did you see 42-year-old Tom Cruise jump up and down Oprah's couch because of Katie?)
It happens to everyone. Fat, thin, tall, short, intelligent, uneducated, holy, not so holy, dark, white, yellow, green... it doesn't really matter.
All of us fall in love.
And we get stuck in myths that drive us absolutely crazy.
My goal is to debunk these myths and convince you not to believe in them.
Let's begin...MYTH 1: LOVE WILL CONQUER ALL
Let me qualify.
This is such a tricky myth. Because love ----- as defined by the Bible ------ will conquer all. But love ------ as defined by glazed-eyed lovers ----- will not.
If you believe in this myth, you might do the following:
You overlook major obstacles in your relationship.
Everyone you know is wondering why you chose that creature from outer space as your boyfriend. Your bestfriends are telling you to get rid of him. Your family is telling you to throw him out of a running vehicle. Aling Rosa of the sari-sari store across the street is telling you to lace his drink with poison.
But you won't --------- because you're in love. That's why there are songs entitled, "you and me against the world".
Your best buds comment, 'but he's been jobless for the past three years!" And you say, "He's free-spirited. He feels boxed in when he's in the office. '(in other words, he's undisciplined, lazy bum.)
Your officemates say, 'He flirts with other women constantly!' and you say, 'No, he's just friendly.' (in other words, he's a pervert)
Your cousins say, 'He's taking drugs, He's got needle marks all over his arm. And you say, 'No, he's into cross stitching.'
You overstay in toxic relationships, believing that your love will change him
The wedding doesn't transform anyone...Even if three Popes officiate the wedding. The person you'll march with into the church will be the same person you'll march with out of the church. He doesn't change one bit.
In fact, the marriage makes the hidden more obvious.
If he was selfish before he got married, he will be even more selfish after the wedding. If he was hypercritical before he got married, he'll even be more vile and prolific with his criticisms after wedding. Here's the truth: You need more than feelings of love to make a relationship work. You need mature character, total commitment and a minimum level of compatibility.
Especially compatibility in the area of values and mission in life. I hear people say, 'We're compatible. Our names begin with the same letter J. My name is Julie and his name is Julio. We're both born in July."
Wow. That's so deep, I want to cry.MYTH 2 : WHEN IT"S TRUE LOVE YOU WILL KNOW THE MOMENT YOU MEET THE OTHER PERSON
I'm sure you've had this experience before.
You are in a crowded room. You're surrounded by boring, noisy chatter when, suddenly, this gorgeous guy enters the door. Your eyes meet. Instantly, time stands still. The universe grinds to a halt. Except for this attractive man in front of you, everything in your vision becomes a giant blur. The hubbub of the crowd becomes a soft muffle and, from out of nowhere, you here gentle violin music from the background.
One week later, he's your boyfriend.
A few weeks later, you discover that your boyfriend's a pathological liar, buried in credit card debt, borrows money from all his girlfriends (you're his eight in six months).
Your mind says, 'Dump him'.
Your heart says, 'But it was love at first sight!'
Here are the consequences ...
You become so focused on the magical first moment, you become blind to the dark side of the relationship.
Six out of seven days, you're fighting with your boyfriend. But you can't give him up because you met each other in such a magical moment. Your car keys fell and he picked it up, and then your eyes met, you smelled his deodorant, and you dropped your keys again ......How can you not be meant for each other?
You become a love-at-first- sight junkie that you could miss out on the 'real thing'.
One intelligent woman told me, 'Bo, there's this guy who's courting me. He's okay. He's kind, he's responsible, he has a good job.......'
"I could hear a 'but' coming ," I said.
"But there are no sparks!" she bit her lip.
"No violin music playing in the background huh?"
"None. When I see him, the background music I hear is lululalu-lalulalula lei..."
"Listen. You don't need a magical first moment to meet your potential husband. The important things are mature character, financial responsibility, ability for commitment, compatible mission and values..."
I actually met this girl again on her wedding, and before she marched down the aisle, she whispered to me, "Do you hear the violin music, Bo? It's loud and clear."
It doesn't have to be love at first sight. In fact, marriages with the least adjustments are those between friends who've known each other for years before they realize that they're good marriage material.
What is love at first sight?
Many times, it's lust at first sight. Or infatuation at first sight.
Don't give it too much weight.
Here's the truth: it takes a moment to experience infatuation but true love takes a lifetime.MYTH 3 : IF IT IS TRUE LOVE YOU WILL FEEL THIS WAY FOR EACH OTHER FOREVER
No, you won't. Here are the consequences for believing this myth :
You panic when the feelings wane, and wonder whether the marriage is over and whether you really loved one another in the first place.
Imagine the night of your honeymoon. Your new bride is sleeping. The cotton curtains are gently swaying in the cool breeze. You gaze at her lovely face. You study her soft cheeks. Her long eyelashes. Her beautiful nose, her parted red lips.
And all of a sudden, she snores.
How do you react? Because it's your honeymoon, you say, 'How cute.'
Six months down the road, the same scene transpires. Your wife is sleeping. And the same cotton curtains are gently swaying in the cool breeze. And you hear her snore.
What do you say? "Ssssssheeeesh, Honey! You sound like a boat!"
What has happened? The feelings have gone. Let me say this: 'That's normal. It happens to everyone. But it doesn't mean your love is gone so don't panic!
You can make a decision to love the snoring boat.
You start blaming your partner for the loss of love
This is nutty. But many people do it: when we don't feel in love, we think it's the fault of the other person. And so we fight him. Again, we fall out of love because we're human beings. It's nobody's fault. The moment you fall out of love , the real work begins.
Let me explain.
This is the most important point I'm going to make. (I got this from Scott Peck in his bestseller book, The Road Less traveled)
"Falling in love isn't love ."
Here's why. When you fall in love...
a. No decision is required. Falling in love just happens.
b. No effort is required. Falling in love is like.... Well, falling.
c. No hard work is required. Falling in love is being bitten by the love bug.
On the other hand, true love requires all three : Decision, effort and lots of hard work. In the Bible, love is a command. You make it happen. Sure true love can only happen after you've fallen out of love.
When you begin choosing to love, even if you don't feel like doing it ---- that's true love. And that's the foundation of a lasting marriage.MYTH 4: YOUR PARTNER WILL FULFILL YOU COMPLETELY
Again because falling in love satisfied you completely ----- you want the same satisfaction to last. No it won't. Consequence? You might fail to recognize a good relationship because your partner isn't fulfilling the needs you should be fulfilling yourself.
Here's the truth: the right partner will fulfill many of your needs but not all of them .
There are just some things your husband can't give you: you're self-worth. Your spirituality. Your inner happiness. These are things you have to work on your own. I've met lots of people who think they're dissatisfied with their marriage. In reality, they're dissatisfied with themselves. I've met lots of people who think they're bored with their marriages. And they complain to the high heavens how boring their husband or wife is ---- when in truth, they're really bored with life.
Meet your own needs. Find your happiness in God. Find your niche, your calling, your destiny. And then share your joy with your spouse.MYTH 5 : IF IT'S TRUE LOVE YOU WON'T BE ATTRACTED TO ANYONE ELSE
If you believe in this myth, you panic when you get attracted to someone else, questioning the authenticity of your love for your spouse.
One man told me, 'Bo, I love my wife. Or I thought I did. But then I met this woman at work. She has nice make-up. She smells nice. She wears a pencil-cut skirt. When I go home, my wife is wearing a drab rag. Her hair is undone. She smells of vinegar. Gosh I am attracted to this girl at work."
Being attracted to someone is normal ----- even if you have a happy marriage. But being attracted doesn't mean falling into adultery.
Every time you think of the other woman, discipline your heart and say, 'Home, boy, Home!'
and escort your heart back to your wife. Because if you feed your attraction with fantasies and constantly think about the other woman, it grows. yo! love, dana
Monday, April 7, 2008
tarot card + a burfday
You are The Sun
Happiness, Content, Joy.
The meanings for the Sun are fairly simple and consistent.
Young, healthy, new, fresh. The brain is working, things that were muddled come clear, everything falls into place, and everything seems to go your way.
The Sun is ruled by the Sun, of course. This is the light that comes after the long dark night, Apollo to the Moon's Diana. A positive card, it promises you your day in the sun. Glory, gain, triumph, pleasure, truth, success. As the moon symbolized inspiration from the unconscious, from dreams, this card symbolizes discoveries made fully consciousness and wide awake. You have an understanding and enjoyment of science and math, beautifully constructed music, carefully reasoned philosophy. It is a card of intellect, clarity of mind, and feelings of youthful energy. What Tarot Card are You?
Take the Test to Find Out.
OH BTW HIGHWAY, HAPPEE BURFDAY TO MY OH SO SKINNY AND HOT AS HELL COUSIN JEHGS
SLEEP ALL DAY AND PURRTY ALL NIGHT HAHA.
ANO BINGO NA BA?
xoxoyo! love, dana
Thursday, April 3, 2008
brighter than sunshine
62 happy (sad, full of love and wars and laughters and tears) months with the most wonderful person I've met. The guy I love the most second to my Dad. The person whom I'd like to spend the rest of my life with.
I mean F****. ok ok enough said no more mushy-ness whatsoever. I'm korni. I know.
Happy 62 months to us, although we didn't start our day right this morning or last night I remember yet still we manage to kiss and make-up :) thank you for the something oki? I love love it! You know that. oh I love you more :) I know you hate this blah blah. but just this one. Im just gonna tell you something.
YOU'RE STILL AND WILL ALWAYS BE A BREATH OF FRESH AIR.
I HEART YOU A LOT :)
PS: You told me that you're happy cos I stayed but that doesn't matter.. all I want to know is that when I leave will you be sad?
If you happen to read this tell me your answer :p i'll be at the right side of the bed everynight and I'll be waiting before I say I do. :)yo! love, dana
brian gorrell-dj montano issue
I've been hearing about this thing to my friends for the last 2 weeks. They've been a frequent visitor of this blog. without me knowing what it is.. I chcked it myself and then tatah! I got surprised.. really! Is this true? or maybe not or can be.. there are only few things that I know about this story..(I've searched the web and found out some articles and write-ups about him) I'll be reading every single detail written on his blog
later. (when baby Dani's sleeping :) )Brian Gorrell
- Born in Canada but raised in Australia. He was on vacay when he met his then ex-boyfriend DJ Montano
. A writer of a local newspaper here in the Philippines and is said to be a part of the high-class society together with other socialites namely the Gucci Gang
(according to Brian) namely Celine Lopez, Tim Yap, Chut Cuerva, Jackie Antonio, Tina Tinio and the others i dont know and I dont realy care bwahaha. no not
Brian reveals it all to the world that this DJ Montano owed him whoaping $70,000
for setting up a restaurant business at Greenbelt and eventually found out that there were no restaurant being built or set up. Now Brian's quest is to get back the money from Dj and have they're own lives separated. No more court issues nor pusuing a case.
And one more still I'm not done reading the 'revelations' of Brian regarding the life and the dirty business the 'socialites' (Gucci gang I think which DJ Montano belongs to) are in to. But yet I've heard rumors that its all about the vices? coccaines? drugs? I still don't know yet. More for me to find out :)
I can't say my opinions yet cos I haven't heard the other side of the story but I think the Government should atleast try to peek oh no look better yet do something at the story behind the high class people and those with much 'power' using prohibited drugs. Let all of the officials be hesitant to take all bribes these High class people and be under their much much money POWER.
more.. sometime not now.. bare with me pleae :)yo! love, dana